Adam4Adam - Stay away from these guys as far as you can (2024)

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Its 2024... what's good for the goose is good for the gander... Freedom of speech prevails in my opinion... oh, wait, isn't that part of our laws?... This privilege thing is about to see a revolution... you did good!

One of your customers claims he is going to blackmail me and expose me as being gay. My username is _jud_jud the one claiming to blackmail me is daddycool please help me in this I will be talking to my attorney Jonathan j Paul in Houston Texas later this afternoon

I hope this is resolved without too much problem. I am truly sorry that this is going on if you wish I will delete my account

I understand…. You were mad….. but try to challenge them intellectually…. Not by race…. There are some eloquent curse words you can use where the sons of [censored]es won’t even realize they’ve been insulted till next week….. don’t seem to their level… that’s the problem that we do on an every day basis…. There is a more effective way to let somebody have it without resorting to race.

You actually made a false assumption that “they” call themselves that based on what facts? “They” because of what you heard on some rap songs? That would be a false assumption since I never heard Will Smith, Salt ‘n Pepa, Eminem, Vanilla Ice or some other rappers use the word in their music. Also, I have heard women call each other the b-word and c-word. With your logic, are you saying that I have the right to call all women this? Also, I’ve heard gay men call each other the q-word or f-word. Again, does your logic allow you to feel fine with all straight people using the same terminology for gay people? Sounds like you are a sad individual finding any reason to be racist when someone hurts your widdle feelings.

I haven't read the other comments but I just want to make sure that you're aware that the N word isn't a defense some unsure how you were using it to defend yourself. But clearly the site is better off without you. Although I'm sure you're all ready back by now with a new account with a different email address because it's really not that [censored]ing difficult. I'm going to leave this comment and go on my merry way thinking one of two things happened either you took your ignorant racism and are now polluting one of the many other sites and apps that we have or you realized the position of your wrongdoing and now have become able to freely move about the cabin in a much more humbled state. Although I still will always find myself wondering for at least for the next 10 minutes before I've completely forget about you exactly what it is that you were defending yourself from by using that word. But hey like the sports people always same the best defense is a good offense and I guess that's what you did was you made a good offense. I'm just shocked that there's actually a person low enough in existence to have been kicked off of one of these apps. You should bear that in perspective

Hello there I have Ben a member of Adam4adam for a long time but I am really thinking hard about closing out my account because Adam4adam is not checking id cards very well because this has happened two times ware I have to talk to cops or parents because there son was on a gay web sight and the only way that a 15 year old kid can be on Adam4adam is if he has a fack Id card or yousing some one else birthday be careful I think that some one is setting people up on Adam4adam I will never be yousing them ever again if that can do there job I am not going threw this ever again

I got same thing happened to me. I’m black and got that black escort hit me up. We started having a nice conversation. Then I reviewed his profile regarding his sexual status. He left that blank. I asked about his sexual status. He pretended he didn’t know what that is. I asked him if he was negative or positive. Then all the sudden I got called by all those names including names like: Tina… and so in. And then told me just because someone put their sexual status is negative you never know what kind of diseases they have in their system and can pass on to other people”. Which I agreed with him. But there was no need to get upset with someone just because they asked about your sexual status when you are trying to hookup with someone saying you are looking for right now. He told me he was going to block me and report, and I told me to go and do whatever he wanted to. Then after all, I tried to talk to someone I knew on there and I was marked as spam. Since I’m not longer interested in this site with those low life escorts/ spreading hiv and all sort of diseases around in there.

It's sad but to be honest, i'm not sure if this is the age we are living in or just this and many gay sites in general. All I can say is that I didn't have issues dating the opposite sex when I was in my twenties. Now, I find about 80% of profiles are fake especially the one's where the profile has "professional" pics on it or the person is unusually good looking. Sad but the more "average" looking the profile has the more chances that it is the real deal. Other issues, like many I have noticed, is that there are no communication skills. Guys will give me a phone number to txt, just after starting a chat and then I ask a question about time there, and they block you? really? I have had people ask me a question and then leave and not come back that night. wtf? I wish I could just find regular parties to go to. I thought sites like this would be a godsend but guess I was wrong. I will ask peple to prove their HIV or Covid status. It's not enough to put it on profile. I have attempted a few times to let the company know about the things above but they don't respond. It's a shame as it seems very well setup in the physical sense. One other thing. I have seen profiles from the same city as me and they are 7400K miles away? Yet another indication that ppl are lying?

Guys. Unlike most of the above, I have your website to be outstanding. I've arranged a number of very successful hookups using adam. I have one complaint, however, and one minor suggestion. Increasingly, the guys who have been contacting me, offer only a face pic, no there pics, and leave the profile page completely unanswered! And then, having given me no info., they want me to open up my private pics! Both incredibly rude and a total waste of my time...Yes, they are behaving like totally selfish fools, but who is really to blame? Sorry, you are. because you allow them to get away with it. If you care at all about your members ((and I know you do) you MUST require that anyone using Adam to contact a member, must fill out at very least the basic info on the form, ie. height, weight, etc. and in addition make some sort of statement as to who they are and what they want.., .At the very least the profile info. Otherwise, you aren't providing your members help in finding people but rather just burdening us with another source of worthless spam. Thanks, diesal484, (or diesal 848) Another matter, it would be a very useful addition to your filter, If you let members specify height as well as age, just saying...

Hi I accidentally deleted my account after receiving tons of spam emails from fake usernames on adam4adam.com and after I resigned onto my account using a changed username and same email address, I was suspended for little to no reason at all.Please tell me this is a mistake on their part.

beware of users Arealone19 and ManNight19. this person claims they are looking for generous men and they are using fake pics and fake stats on their profile. these 2 accounts are the same person but with different stats. he tricks you into inviting him over and when he comes over he robs you. stay far away from this person and report him to the police if you see him. he is a criminal and he is bad news. when i called him out on what he was doing he blocked me because he knows he was busted. also he claims his name is zaciah which is probly fake too. he says he can only travel and cannot host.

xxxr8d- has a new name xxiis he is Harrison Peebles when i looked the xxiis up his name only one stand out and was from russian and he block me when i told him who he was so track him down or the facebook name is fake too.

If your thinking of joining Adam4Adam.com...DON'T...This site consists of 99% either Fakes, Flakes and Game Players. In all actually these "hook-up" sites are adult video games...your the player and the profiles are your targets. When you do "hook-up" you will maybe at best you will get 25% percent of a honest answer about their HIV and STI status. There are many men that say their NEG on their profile and will bald face lie about their status. I personally know boys that have HIV and have unprotected sex and with their unsuspecting "hook-ups" and have personally had it happen to me(found out later from a mutual aquaintance he had HIV and lied to me) well I'm not dumb If I hooked-up with one liar no telling how many "boys" have lied to me and several other men I have had 2 relationships spawn from the internet. The first one ended up to be a sex addict and just recently well he ended up to be a socio/patho/narcissist. Adam4Adam and all other free "hook-up" sites attract low life losers, and as i said Fakes, Flakes and Game Players. It's a one in millions that you will find a "boy" that is worth trying a relationship with. Stay with a "hook-up " and remember these sites are FREE and anyone with an I.Q. of more than 2 knows that NOTHING is FREE. So with these sites it's a roll of the dice of what you get and this time your rolling the dice and at stake is your life. So ALWAYS USE PROTECTION and have the mindset that every "hook-up" is either HIV+ or has a STI. This is the honest truth about these FREE "hook-up" sites. And remember when you sign up your going to end up having more games played on you than all all the games in Vegas.

This is why black guys stay away from white guys. You're all racist. All you want is black dick and don't care for black people at all. When you get mad, you want to call people ###s.

I'm getting kinda disappointed with this Adam4Adam site.I've been on this site since last year and stated that I was looking for a serious long term relationship;but instead a bunch or guys would send me smiles, messages and even friend requests.When I send them a message confirming to meet at my place, we meet and have unprotected sex until it unexpectedly ends with a one-night stand.I tried to contact the man again about our future visit but I received no response from him;Then he blocked me for no reason at all.I clearly stated in my Adam4Adam profile:I don't want any one-night stands;but no one listens.Then I bet the man I had unprotected sex with is also having sex with other multiple guys regardless of their health and STD status.This is clearly why the spread or HIV/AIDS and other STDS are on the rise in America.I would never recommend this site to a friend.

Its a site too hook up on take it or leave it... Guys have duplicate profiles and lots of fake pics. If you think a photo is too good to be true drag it to your desk top and do a google search on the image... and there you will see the same image on p*rn sites, thus stolen. Tech support sucks big time and very slow to answer emails on issues from slow speed to suspension. I imagine some dude working from home and signing in every few hours and handling issues at random. The admins are nasty on twitter if you tweet a complaint. Had a few good encounters but thats about it.

This site is full of deceit: fake pics, std's and a site administration that thrives on the ratchetness. It has been sited by the CDC as a major contributor to the increase in hiv and aids. this site is the worst it has ever been.

I'm not surprised that most of the comments on here about HIV are ignorant of the actual research into the virus. I'm not going to try to set you guys right, but frankly you don't know what you're talking about when it comes to the spread or symptoms of the virus. And that ignorance can be very dangerous to you and those you get intimate with. I find A4A to be a good system for meeting people for any reason. I've recently moved and it has helped me to make new friends and activity partners. Ultimately, what you use a chat system for depends on you. If you want sex, it's a great place to find it. If you want friends, it's great for that too. If you just want to chat without leaving your couch, you can do that. It's up to you.

Was on this sight several month met no one. waste of valuable time.

Illegal? That is what we need, more freedoms banned. That is why this country is not number one (if you have never left this country you cannot make that claim!) If something you do does not cause harm to anyone it should not be illegal.
In this case, site is fine, the individuals lying about their status, are not.
Again hold people responsible for their actions, not someone or something else.

this site has got to be nothing but a site for male prositutes...and i am going to start printing out the profiles of the prostitutes and forward it to the local police department and also to the Federal Bureau of Investigation and i bet it will get shut down!

your just a racist pig. an they call each other ###. not ###s dumb ###

I completely agree that many people go to A4A because they are addicted to hooking -up and having sex with as many people without knowing what each others have. It seem that now these days people are not afraid of getting HIV since if you become infected all you have to is to find a local HIV clinic and get treatment for free. But the responsibility lies on the State and I feel A4A should be legal responsible for having such a site where people can just go and have sex as they please. Many people do lie about their profiles and even their HIV status. I used to do counseling for an HIV clinic all my clients stated that that they go to A4A and hook up without telling others they are Positive.

Didn't you guys ever hear of grinder? Way better. Geodesic too, so you know the lication and doin't have to drive far if at all. Oh, btw only works on ipad and iphones (from what I hear).

Adam4Adam is run by a few ugly, rejected, power hungry trolls. It reminds me of how gay.com used to operate. Now look at gay.com. Very few members. Adam4Adam will be replaced by some other website or app in the future just like gay.com was and the now power hungry trolls wont have any way to retaliate. Its funny because most websites and such that are personal site based are ran by bitter ### old or just unattractive queens and its their way of getting back at attractive guys. You do one thing they dont like and your banned or blocked. Its a power trip for them and you see it everywhere. From the flagging trolls on craigslist to the ones on Adam4adam. I want to see a site that will only block or remove you if you are a spam violator and for no other reason. We are all adults and if you cant act like one then you dont deserve to even be online. Report button is for losers.

I've had an account with A4A for four years. Until this morning...when my account was "suspended." I have no idea why. There is no explanation as to what triggered the suspension. My e-mail has not received any word from
them. Nothing materially has changed in my profile or my pictures. I have not flamed anyone, and am always
respectful of the other person. There are always new people hitting me up for a meeting, but many of them I turn
down due to work and personal circ*mstances. Many of them are a half hour away by car, and I won't drive that far.
One thing I did do differently..which could have been a trigger...is that the last time I logged in without a problem,
I tried doing so using a free proxy server from another part of the globe..just on a lark. I logged out minutes later,
and that was it. Perhaps this one event was the one that prompted them to suspend me?
More importantly...is the "suspension" permanent? If so, maybe they should use the words "account terminated, " rather than suspension, eh?
I have written customer care at a4a, but I don't expect a response. Maybe someone here can give me some
insight? I don't plan on using them again under a different handle at this point. Comments anyone?

I have been a member of this site for years, nearly 10 or more to be exact. Yesterday I got into an argument with a black escort who had a few names to call me, so I called back. He reported me and they chose to suspend my account. I have supported the site for years, but no more. I guess all they really care about is getting more and more of their paying supporting [censored]s! It's no longer about hookups or making friends, it's about offering services even though there are hundreds of escort sites out there. This low life ### has just barked up the wrong tree! And yes, I used the word, when they can call each other that and they can call you names but you can't defend yourself, yes, I used the friggen word!

you are a ###, this site did nothing wrong this is your friends fault not the site do not blame a legit business for your partners or friends sexual activity. they control it themselves.

This is to comment again due to some mispelled words on the last comment. This site may not be for everyone. I canunderstand the comment the person made about guys having unprotected sex. In my experience I I found my lost partner on this site and I lost my lost partner maybe due to this site. But I have to take responsibilty in this as well. I may have not been doing what I need to do as a Partner to keep him happy. If you are doing what you need to do as a partner then you should not worry about your partner looking on this site for extra-activities with any other guys. This site can be use for many different things as we all know a Hook-up, friends only which I have met many guys that just only want to be friends. In my personal opinion I think this site is what you make of it... However if you are in a LTR please stay away and stay with you partner as they say it may break up a happy home. Good Luck Guys!

These sites are not for everyone. If you are in a LTR with a Partner my suggestion is to keep your partner happy sexually. I have notice alot of guys have a patner on this site, some where you are not making your patner happy. In 2000, I got involoved in a LTR with someone on the site and it was a good LTR. I have compliants about the site. It's not always about hooking up and going at it for 5 mins or more LOL. I have found some very interested guys on here that just wants to be friends nothing more. I am myself accepted the friendship. My opinon only this is a good site, a person can use this sute for whatever he wants too.